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According to top sexperts, men's sexual fantasies range from submission to domination, and from voyeurism to exhibitionism. Here are 9 things guys wish their partners would try. The nature of sexual fantasies is they push the boundaries a bit, letting you imagine situations that occur infrequently, if at all, and exploring the depths of your desires.
Men tend to have core thematic fantasies that they can return to again and again, he adds, and "then there are fantasies that men would enjoy in the way they surf TV, exploring what catches their eye or their mood. With Kerner's help and the input of other sex experts, here are 9 of the most common men's sexual fantasies. Perhaps one of the simplest male sexual fantasies is just having his partner direct the sex script for the night.
Whether it's a full-on dominatrix or simply a partner who knows what they want and how to get it, many men find the thrill of a confident and sexual partner to be very appealing, explains Laura BermanPhD, a sex expert and author of Loving Sex: The Book of Joy and Passion.
Feeling pursued can be a very sexy changeand it can also be a huge ego boost," she says. Schwartz and her colleagues surveyedadults about their marriages, touching on topics including money and sexual fantasies. At least, that's what the heterosexual men in her survey and her undergraduate classes reported. And yet Schwartz says she hasn't come up with a practical response to the question some guys have asked her: "How do I get my lover to participate in a threesome? Another common male sexual fantasy is having anal sex with a partner who doesn't usually or ever do it, Schwartz found in her research.
Men fantasize about what they aren't getting, Schwartz observes. If anal sex is something you and your partner would like to try, do your research to make it fun, safe, and pleasurable for both partners. Voyeurism in general is near the top of the list of men's sexual fantasies. It can be combined with other fantasies, including watching your ificant other with another sexual partner or masturbating to orgasmor even discovering other people in flagrante delicto.
Kerner points out that many modern sexual fantasies come from watching pornbut the drawback to that is often isolation. Many men enjoy sexual fantasies in which the man is more of a passive player. They enjoy being tied up, teased, tantalized, and spanked. Having sex in public and being watched or discovered is another common male fantasy, says Kerner. Acting out this fantasy in real life is somewhat risky, as sex and nudity in public places can lead to legal consequences not to mention embarrassmentbut Kerner says you can get a similar sexual charge without actually being in a public place.
For some men, the fantasy of domination, or having total power over their partner in a sexual situation, can be quite arousing, Kerner says. These types of fantasies typically include bondage, spanking, dirty talk, receiving oral sex, as well as other forms of expression. Some men fantasize about dressing up and playing out new roles and storylines such as teacher and student, or nurse and patient, Kerner says.
Heterosexual men tend to enjoy roles where a strong man encounters attractive women, but Schwartz says homosexual or bisexual men typically have more freedom to play in this arena. Health Topics. Health Tools. Men's Health. By Madeline R. Reviewed: April 15, Medically Reviewed. Could More Be Merrier? Having a Threesome. Watching Sex. Exhibitionism: Having Sex in a Public Place.
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From Domination to Dressing Up: The Top 9 Sexual Fantasies for Men